About me and my approach to counselling
Pluralistic Counselling
I work in Pluralistic Psychotherapeutic Counselling, which is about having an understanding of key therapeutic approaches that can be drawn on to enrich what is known as a Person-Centred foundation.
The core belief behind this is simple: each person brings a completely unique set of life experiences. Therefore, the path toward healing and change has to come from you.
My job is to ensure you feel safe within clear and ethical codes of conduct (National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society), and use my training and supervision to ensure that I actively facilitate your right to be in control of your own wellbeing.
Person-Centred counselling can be allowing a person to talk and process, with no directives from the therapist other than a calming, attentive presence and a listening style that fosters clarity and a client's own self-reflection. However, in Pluralistic counselling, it might be that our conversation leads me to offer a framework from Psychodynamic Therapy and/or thought and behaviour patterns from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT).
Here is what that can look like in practice:
Exploring the Past: Psychodynamic Insights
Psychodynamic theory helps us understand how our earliest formative experiences can quietly shape how we think, feel, and behave long after those events have passed. In the therapy room, this framework can show up through our relationship. Strong feelings, automatic reactions, or subtle patterns that play out between us can often shine a light on blind spots or old self-protection mechanisms. I can offer tentative reflections that may offer pathways to further exploration. Sometimes, a client will bring their own focus on childhood and we can start from there.
Shifting the Present: CBT Tools
CBT is a highly structured, stand-alone discipline typically used for short-term, goal-oriented work targeting specific limiting thoughts and behaviours in the present. While I am not a stand-alone CBT practitioner, I can integrate CBT tools when they serve a practical purpose. For instance, we might use specific worksheets to map out exactly how hidden beliefs are governing your current behaviours and automatic reactions. For other clients, we might skip the paperwork entirely and achieve the same result simply through targeted, reflective questions. By bringing these patterns into the light, we create space for you to make conscious, supportive choices.
The Power of the Blend
Often, the most powerful shifts happen when we blend both psychodynamic and CBT approaches over time. If you come to therapy struggling with an issue in your everyday life, we might use CBT concepts to manage the immediate stress, while simultaneously using psychodynamic insights to uncover the underlying childhood conditioning that keeps the pattern alive.
Ultimately, Pluralistic counselling means we are working together, collaboratively to make therapy best fit your needs. I will consider your needs, limits, expectations, past therapy etc. and we can review your experience as it unfolds. Feedback, pushback and direction is always welcomed. You are invited to make it yours.
Experience
Life Learning & Study
I am a firm believer that life experience is our primary education. I bring that perspective into the therapy room, grounded in the belief that client-led discovery holds the key to greater self-knowledge, autonomy and wellbeing. This philosophy mirrors my own path, which brought me to counselling in my 50s with a lifetime of hard-won self-learning.
Over the years, I have been fortunate to gain work experience across both health and education settings, which pushed my understanding of what wellbeing actually means in practice. Travelling and living in different places further challenged my view of what it means to be me, and what it means to belong.
In the field of mental health, we are essentially grappling with what it means to be human—finding our way in a culture that is only just beginning to connect the parts to understand the whole. My life experiences have provided me with a wealth of opportunity for self-discovery. But it was my formal counselling training that taught me how to refine that learning into greater autonomy, clarity, and health for myself. And now I have a clinical framework and knowledge-base that allows me to safely facilitate that process for others.
Qualifications & Professional Memberships
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Registered Member – National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS)
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Registered Member - National Hypnotherapy Society (HS)
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Level 5 Diploma in Pluralistic Psychotherapeutic Counselling (NCPS Accredited)
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Level 3 Diploma in Hypnotherapy and Counselling Skills (NCPS Accredited)
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Continuous Professional Development (CPD) in Counselling Children and Young People, Emotional and Systemic Regulation, Anxiety in the Nervous System, and Depression.
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Training Placements at Mind in Gwent (adults), and Place2Be in Cardiff (Children)
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BA Hons in Modern Language
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Current Enhanced Disclosure and Barring Service (DBS) check on the DBS Update Service